Why he wants to break up – mistakes women do

Some men are able to tolerate their girlfriends’ more than usual negative behavior. However, some often reach their limits and end up breaking up with their girlfriend. It’s quite unusual for guys to initiate the break up (unless they have someone else or they are cheating and looking for an easy way out).

Women break up with their boyfriends because they can’t tolerate their obnoxious or sometimes rude behavior and attitude. The same thing can happen to men, but on a whole different level of intolerance. Believe it or not, men do listen to their girlfriends every once in a while; we’re just not used to hearing it more than once or twice. If you’re a guy and you somehow can’t tolerate your girlfriend’s negative / irrational / obnoxious behavior, then breaking up with your girlfriend may be the only way out of it. While women find it frustrating when their partners don’t listen to them, we also find it frustrating when you don’t listen to us as well. Guys have different reasons to break up with their girlfriends, whether it’s just an excuse to get out of a relationship or breaking up with your girlfriend is the only way out of a relationship that’s headed for a downward spiral. For girls, doing the following will increase your chances of a break up:

1.) Reason to break up # 1: Jealousy – We get the fact that you are possessive and you want us all for yourselves but starting a fight just because we looked at another woman is pretty lame. It’s a whole different story when we are talking with them and I believe girls have the right to be jealous when flirting is already involved.

2.) Reason to break up#2: Neediness – We all have separate lives before we enter into a relationship. When girls start to invade into a guy’s separate life and starts to accumulate her boyfriend’s time all for herself, then we may feel like we are choked or put on a strangle hold because we don’t have enough space for ourselves.

3.) Reason to break up#3: Confrontation – Confrontation and arguments are normal in a relationship. We really don’t want you girls to start arguments for a variety of petty reasons. Doing this will really wear us down.

While these are just some of the more major reasons to break up for guys, the fact of the matter is, guys just break up when they can’t tolerate with their girlfriend’s behavior or attitude. The same thing can be said for girls who can’t tolerate their guy’s attitude. All in all, relationships are all about giving and taking, and everything is mutual.